Fear of the divorce process

I am often reminded that people going through divorce, separation or other litigation do not behave well, not because they are not good people, but because they are guided by fear of the divorce process, fear of the future, fear of what they do not know, fear because they do not understand the divorce process. Luke Bryan said it best:
I believe you love who you love
Ain’t nothing you should ever be ashamed of
I believe this world ain’t half as bad as it looks
I believe most people are good.